How can I pick up my life and move on after this? Why would he do this to me?

My first boyfriend in 3rd grade broke up with me years and years ago because he was moving. He ended up not moving, so I had forced myself to move on. After not talking to him for years and after his friends have ruined my reputation, he decides he likes me again. I obviously, leapt at this opportunity, and we started texting each other five days ago. Now, he is moving again at the end of this school year. My boyfriend was talking to me two nights ago on text messaging and was saying how pretty I was and that I was hot. He totally was talking about wanting to take it to the next level. Then last night he said he really liked me but he couldn't like anyone right now. How can you change your mind over night unless you felt this way all along? He was the one who initiated this relationship anyways. he said he still likes me and not someone else but he had to end it before we %26quot;really got into it%26quot; while he has the one pressuring me. He said %26quot;there's nobody else i'd rather have my first kiss with than you, but I can't like like anyone right now%26quot; I told him I wouldn't b mad with him, but to just tell me the truth, but he says he cant like me, although he obviously does. What's getting in the way of his feelings for me? His friends have converted so to speak and are cool about us going out. What could be his motives for this breaking up and how should I deal with this?



P.S. If any of his innumerable slutty ex girlfriends or manipulative mother foungd out he liked me hed be slammed and laughed at, but he wouldnt break up with me for that.How can I pick up my life and move on after this? Why would he do this to me?He is using you to feed his ego.

Why? Because you are participating in his head games.
How can I pick up my life and move on after this? Why would he do this to me?
If he really wants to break up with you,You have to respect his decision and move on with your life
How can I pick up my life and move on after this? Why would he do this to me?
Break ups, %26quot;slutty%26quot; ex's, manipulative mother, excessive peer pressure.



Aiey its just a bloody mine field aint it? But o well i question if any amount of words will get you off of your hormones and get you back down to reality for your own safety.. but then again im pretty sure the dude watching us all would probably hate me more for not tryin.. so here goes.



Time of a relationship means nothing, you could have been with somebody since you were 3 years old but if it wasent a quality relationship then it meant nothing. There is a world beyond what you believe to be your comfortable relationship. Its a tough run to live life on your own but you'll find someone better if you dont close your eyes to everyone else. If hes gona play a game of minesweeper with your emotions then its not worth the pain for the small amount of comfort that you feel in not being on the singles market. Being in a relationship is nice but tieing your self to a cinderblock when you could have chosen a life raft is only going to cost you everything when you jump into the sea of life. Ultimately the choice is yours but do take this with you. There are other fish in the sea.

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