I really want to do well, people say i take studies way too seriously, but is not getting good grades important for your career. i find most days im unproductive and unmotivated, and i do not know what is the cause, I am not sure if everybody feels like that. How do you put constant effort when you are feeling unmotivatedI find that I am very unfocused, unmotivated in my studies sometimes, how do I change this around?i have felt like that but won cause tried to ex force my mind.
First try to be Motivated, before study watch a movie or play PS.
as the another said: be interest in important thingsI find that I am very unfocused, unmotivated in my studies sometimes, how do I change this around?Don't try to do too much.
Prioritse what needs doing.
Try to study things which are of interest (or things that you see help you)
Have lots of fun.
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
In your years in high school how have you changed?
For the better or for the worst?
As for me the better. I used to be more insecure. I'm not afriad to roam the halls alone or sit alone at a assembly without my friends. and i realized that your best friend in 9th grade may not be your best friend in 11th. i've also developed ideas and opinion about myself and life, thiings that I will carry on with me forever. Now i'm in my last year of high school and I love who i have become.In your years in high school how have you changed?I've definitely changed mentally and physically..
I know the importance of college and i've changed my focus on what i want my career to be. I'm not boy crazy like i used to be, i realize that impressing the boys isn't my priority and i don't care about peoples' opinions about me. I got 100 haters i need 100 more! I can easily tell when someone doesn't like me, cause theres loads of fake people on this planet. I avoid drama cause it's a waste of time and is too much stress and frustration. Same thing with gossip- it's for people who are bored with themselves and have nothing else to talk about.
I've also realized how Algebra is most useless thing on this planet cause absolutely no one uses it and it should be optional. I've learned not to trust anyone no matter what cause of the bad experiences i've had. I've definitely improved on procrastinating which i know i need to stop! Fortunately i participate in a lot more sports and programs than i used to when i was in middle school. I'm 100% independent so i don't rely on anyone but myself.
Anyway people say high school is the best time of your life. Personally i disagree with that cause high school sucks bigtime! And i can't wait to move out and go free myself in college.In your years in high school how have you changed?I am in my last year of high school too.
Grade 8 and 9 were hard years for me; I was insecure about everything: hair, make-up, etc.
Now, I just don't care about those things anymore and I just earned an academic award from all of my hard work.
So...the better for me.In your years in high school how have you changed?I agree when you said your best friends in the 9th grade may not be your best friend in the 11th in terms of females. Because every female at my school changes best friend at least twice a month. The guys are not like that.Well uh, I'm going to be a freshmen so this isn't really the answer you're looking for... but In 2 years of middle school I kinda changed. Like I changed the way I think about like the world and the way people act and all that jazz, and I stopped caring about what other people think of me.Well, ive only got 2 years under my belt so far. But, i've changed. Im less anoyying. Im more confident and happy with myself. I also dont feel like i need to work to impress people anymore. I also take my schooling more seriously than i did in freshman year.
Physically, i ve changed, too. Im much taller. Also more musular and manly looking. Im also hairier, lol. Freshman year, my voice was changing and cracking all the time, now its all done with that, thankfully.
I think ive changed for the better.when i first got into high school i was very shy .. and usually kept to myself .. by the time my senior year was over I noticed that I had really opened up... however .. i didn't like a lot of my classmates ... but oh well .. now i'm going to college and i'm ready to show my new self ..
As for me the better. I used to be more insecure. I'm not afriad to roam the halls alone or sit alone at a assembly without my friends. and i realized that your best friend in 9th grade may not be your best friend in 11th. i've also developed ideas and opinion about myself and life, thiings that I will carry on with me forever. Now i'm in my last year of high school and I love who i have become.In your years in high school how have you changed?I've definitely changed mentally and physically..
I know the importance of college and i've changed my focus on what i want my career to be. I'm not boy crazy like i used to be, i realize that impressing the boys isn't my priority and i don't care about peoples' opinions about me. I got 100 haters i need 100 more! I can easily tell when someone doesn't like me, cause theres loads of fake people on this planet. I avoid drama cause it's a waste of time and is too much stress and frustration. Same thing with gossip- it's for people who are bored with themselves and have nothing else to talk about.
I've also realized how Algebra is most useless thing on this planet cause absolutely no one uses it and it should be optional. I've learned not to trust anyone no matter what cause of the bad experiences i've had. I've definitely improved on procrastinating which i know i need to stop! Fortunately i participate in a lot more sports and programs than i used to when i was in middle school. I'm 100% independent so i don't rely on anyone but myself.
Anyway people say high school is the best time of your life. Personally i disagree with that cause high school sucks bigtime! And i can't wait to move out and go free myself in college.In your years in high school how have you changed?I am in my last year of high school too.
Grade 8 and 9 were hard years for me; I was insecure about everything: hair, make-up, etc.
Now, I just don't care about those things anymore and I just earned an academic award from all of my hard work.
So...the better for me.In your years in high school how have you changed?I agree when you said your best friends in the 9th grade may not be your best friend in the 11th in terms of females. Because every female at my school changes best friend at least twice a month. The guys are not like that.Well uh, I'm going to be a freshmen so this isn't really the answer you're looking for... but In 2 years of middle school I kinda changed. Like I changed the way I think about like the world and the way people act and all that jazz, and I stopped caring about what other people think of me.Well, ive only got 2 years under my belt so far. But, i've changed. Im less anoyying. Im more confident and happy with myself. I also dont feel like i need to work to impress people anymore. I also take my schooling more seriously than i did in freshman year.
Physically, i ve changed, too. Im much taller. Also more musular and manly looking. Im also hairier, lol. Freshman year, my voice was changing and cracking all the time, now its all done with that, thankfully.
I think ive changed for the better.when i first got into high school i was very shy .. and usually kept to myself .. by the time my senior year was over I noticed that I had really opened up... however .. i didn't like a lot of my classmates ... but oh well .. now i'm going to college and i'm ready to show my new self ..
Have you ever looked at an old grade school picture and realized your teacher was actually quite sexy?
I remembered my 2nd Grade teacher as being a red haired old hag, limping to the front of the class to teach and certainly knocking on death's door. Well a few years ago an old friend showed me the class picture (we were in the same class), and the teacher was actually quite young and attractive. Probably early 30s, nicely dressed, well done red hair.
Isn't it amazing how perspectives change?Have you ever looked at an old grade school picture and realized your teacher was actually quite sexy?Yes,many timesHave you ever looked at an old grade school picture and realized your teacher was actually quite sexy?Indeed it is. I only remember teachers appearing attractive once I got into middle school. That must be when my hormones started acting up.Have you ever looked at an old grade school picture and realized your teacher was actually quite sexy?Not yet. Most of my teachers were unattractive. I did have a hot sub once in highschool thoughYuck...no*
Isn't it amazing how perspectives change?Have you ever looked at an old grade school picture and realized your teacher was actually quite sexy?Yes,many timesHave you ever looked at an old grade school picture and realized your teacher was actually quite sexy?Indeed it is. I only remember teachers appearing attractive once I got into middle school. That must be when my hormones started acting up.Have you ever looked at an old grade school picture and realized your teacher was actually quite sexy?Not yet. Most of my teachers were unattractive. I did have a hot sub once in highschool thoughYuck...no*
I dont know if I hate him or love him?
The boy I like acts like he likes me and then doesnt. I dont get it. He flirts with other girls in front of me. Im constantly holding back feelings and tears.
I used to be real close to him in 2nd grade, he moved away and came back. He changed. Hes not the old boy I used to know.
Yesterday he told me.
%26quot;You've changed. Your the same goofy girl I knew in 2nd grade but theres some kind of look in your eyes you give me. I dont know if its a dirty look or what.%26quot;
I didnt reply and just walked away. I didnt know what to say.
He looks at me a lot but i cant give up, its a feeling of hoplessness when i try. A hollow feeling. How do I get over him? HelpI dont know if I hate him or love him?It sounds like you're jealous. Tell him if it bothers you, but frankly not many guys would be willing to change.
He's just flirting. He's not getting naked with them. Guys will always talk to and enjoy the company of other women, even when dating, engaged, or married. You need to either accept it, or settle for some anti-social guy who is afraid to talk to anybody.
I used to be real close to him in 2nd grade, he moved away and came back. He changed. Hes not the old boy I used to know.
Yesterday he told me.
%26quot;You've changed. Your the same goofy girl I knew in 2nd grade but theres some kind of look in your eyes you give me. I dont know if its a dirty look or what.%26quot;
I didnt reply and just walked away. I didnt know what to say.
He looks at me a lot but i cant give up, its a feeling of hoplessness when i try. A hollow feeling. How do I get over him? HelpI dont know if I hate him or love him?It sounds like you're jealous. Tell him if it bothers you, but frankly not many guys would be willing to change.
He's just flirting. He's not getting naked with them. Guys will always talk to and enjoy the company of other women, even when dating, engaged, or married. You need to either accept it, or settle for some anti-social guy who is afraid to talk to anybody.
Change it a bit in your words? Plzz and thxx:) (5pts)?
Right at the beginning of this novel, we find out that the main character and narrator, Deanna Lambert, has a reputation in Pacifica, California as the school slut. Turns out that several years earlier, Deanna's dad caught her and a senior guy named Tommy Webber having sex in Tommy's car. The twist? Deanna was in the eighth grade at the time, and Tommy was the only boy she's ever been with, before or since. Still, her peers and classmates treat Deanna like a punching bag, teasing her in incredibly vicious and hurtful ways to the point where she's basically an outcast. As Deanna enters the summer following her sophomore year of high school, she has just two friends -- Lee, a sweet, religious girl, and Jason, a longtime pal whom Deanna has come to look at as possibly more than a friend. The main problem? Lee and Jason are a couple.
Meanwhile, Deanna's home life is a complete mess. Her dad has never recovered from the shock of finding her with Tommy, and his response has been to essentially ignore Deanna for years. Deanna's mom works long hours at a department store to help make ends meet, and her beloved older brother, early 20-ish Darren, is living in the family's basement with his infant daughter April and girlfriend Stacey. Needless to say, Deanna's father is not happy about this living arrangement.
Author Sara Zarr follows Deanna's story through that one long summer, as Deanna takes a job at a local pizza parlor only to find that Tommy works there, too. Over those summer months, Deanna learns a lot about redemption and forgiveness, as she hurts her friends, watches Darren and Stacey's relationship self destruct, confronts Tommy, and finally speaks up about her dad's icy behavior. Although nothing truly unpredictable happens here, the story is nicely, almost gently told, the characters generally act in believable, imperfect ways, and it doesn't feel like one of those awful books with a heavy lesson to teach. Plus, it's great for the reader to see Deanna start to regain some of her old spark, since she's such a compelling, fully drawn character.
While the storyline here is a bit mature, there are no graphic scenes and little foul language. Truly, the story revolves more around the aftermath of Deanna's mistake, and how hard it is to repair both damaged self-esteem and damaged relationships. Definitely recommended for teen girls.Change it a bit in your words? Plzz and thxx:) (5pts)?You mean so it doesn't sound like you plagiarized it from this site?
http://kpl-teen-reads.livejournal.com/21鈥?/a>Change it a bit in your words? Plzz and thxx:) (5pts)?soo not worth 5 ptsjava mens hair
Meanwhile, Deanna's home life is a complete mess. Her dad has never recovered from the shock of finding her with Tommy, and his response has been to essentially ignore Deanna for years. Deanna's mom works long hours at a department store to help make ends meet, and her beloved older brother, early 20-ish Darren, is living in the family's basement with his infant daughter April and girlfriend Stacey. Needless to say, Deanna's father is not happy about this living arrangement.
Author Sara Zarr follows Deanna's story through that one long summer, as Deanna takes a job at a local pizza parlor only to find that Tommy works there, too. Over those summer months, Deanna learns a lot about redemption and forgiveness, as she hurts her friends, watches Darren and Stacey's relationship self destruct, confronts Tommy, and finally speaks up about her dad's icy behavior. Although nothing truly unpredictable happens here, the story is nicely, almost gently told, the characters generally act in believable, imperfect ways, and it doesn't feel like one of those awful books with a heavy lesson to teach. Plus, it's great for the reader to see Deanna start to regain some of her old spark, since she's such a compelling, fully drawn character.
While the storyline here is a bit mature, there are no graphic scenes and little foul language. Truly, the story revolves more around the aftermath of Deanna's mistake, and how hard it is to repair both damaged self-esteem and damaged relationships. Definitely recommended for teen girls.Change it a bit in your words? Plzz and thxx:) (5pts)?You mean so it doesn't sound like you plagiarized it from this site?
http://kpl-teen-reads.livejournal.com/21鈥?/a>Change it a bit in your words? Plzz and thxx:) (5pts)?soo not worth 5 pts
Can i have your opinion?
lets say you had a friend since 7th grade and you 2 had 1 or 2 little fights that didn't brake up the friendship. then high school showed up(freshman year [9th grade]) towards the end of the school year (2nd semester) you had 2nd lunch instead of 1st lunch because of your schedule change.
so now you and your friend had the same lunch, so you start eating lunch with her and her new friends. (your kind of on the shy side so you don't make new friends right away) everyday you each lunch with them and then you kind of see your friend change for the worse. then in early june, she texted you saying you can't eat lunch her and her new friends she made that year. she didn't say why.
when you e-mailed her she didn't answer, she never returns anything. she even didn't say why when you have a friend to help out.
what would you do to this situation?
if you seek revenge, how would you get revenge?Can i have your opinion?I wouldn't seek revenge. She is just being caught up, I would forget about her because if she did that to you she is NOT a real friend. And if she did that you shouldn't even worry about her, no matter how hard it will be, people will do some mean stuff, but your true frirends will stay with you till the end.Can i have your opinion?Seek revenge? Don't be immature.
You've let us to assume a lot with the words %26quot;and then you kind of see your friend change for the worse.%26quot;
Once you saw your friend changing, why didn't you ask what the problem is? Why did you let it get this bad?
I would talk to her in person and try to understand what happened because none of what you said makes sense.Can i have your opinion?make new friends
u will feel much better with some one u feel comfortable around
i did and now i see where id be sitting if i were still wid my ex bff
im glad im at my own lunch table wherei feel like i can be methe same thing kinda happened to me to my freshman year only my friend didn't turn for the worse so to say. she became a cheerleader. she didn't really talk to me after that. we usually didn't fight so i didn't understand what was going on with her. what i did was tried to talk to her and if she walked away i let her. i understand that it is hard losing a friend when you have been friends for a long time but they aren't really good friends if they change on you after your lunch schedule changed. i know this wasn't exactly what you wanted to hear but i hope it helps. you can make new friends too just like she did.I'd just try to find her in the hallway or something to ask in person. Then she'd have to respond. But I wouldn't seek revenge. Revenge could be used better than on something like that.This is classic high school.
Everyone changes when they get to high school. Some for the better, and some for the worse... your friend being a prime example.
Don't be hostile, then she has a reason to be your enemy. Just send her a text saying that it's okay, and if she ever needs you, you'll be there for her. Strengthen your relationships with your other friends and show her you can be happy with or without her.wow what a bit*ch! honestly i would try to make alot more friends than her and try to enjoy highschool without her as*! she then will realize that you never needed her( cause you dont) and then that will make her feel like crap since she saw how easily you were doing without her. what come around goes around trust me her time will come(=sometimes u just gotta let her go. if shes changin 4 the worst dont change as well. stay true 2 urselfrevenge? dnt get to mad about it
if she was rly ur friend from the beginning
she wouldnt have turned on you....:/ I'm sorry hun, but I understand completely what you're going through.
The same thing happened to me in 8th grade.
I was best friends with this girl since Kindergarten, we even lived in the same neighborhood and everything. We never fought really, and we always talked about everything.
Then, one day in 8th grade, I was out of school sick for a couple of days. When I came back, I was like %26quot;Hey ____! I haven't seen you in a really-%26quot; but she just ignored me and just walked away. I was really confused, it was so sudden with nothing leading up to it, and to this day (I'm going into 12th grade now) I still don't even know whatever happened. I tried talking to her, but she would just act like I wasn't there. She talked to me once after, but only after her new %26quot;best friend%26quot; started talking with me first and all she said was %26quot;bye%26quot; as they left. That showed me that all she was, was a follower to begin with.
Eventually, I realized that I was better off without her as a friend. In high school she became a cheerleader and joined up with the %26quot;I'm better than everyone%26quot; clique, which was so different from the type of person I was. She turned into a real brat. I mean, of course, sometimes I still miss the old her. You just don't forget someone who was your best friend for that many years, but I realize that I don't want to be the type of person she is today and I don't to hang out with the type of people she does.. anyway, back to answering your question. Sorry, I just sort of came a a self-realization there.
I'd suggest trying to maybe talk with her face to face. If she won't listen or agree to discuss what the problem is, it's best just to let her go. You're right, she's changing, and that happens to quickly in highschool that it's hard to see it coming. It probably hurts a little bit, but in the long run you'll be better off without her, and you deserve a better friend than that. Don't seek revenge, just let it go. Show her that it's her loss.Don't seek revenge.
I say just forget her. If she doesn't want to be your friend, go through high school without her. Someone like that you don't need to be around. For starters, she wasn't a true friend. Like My parents tell me, in high school you find out who your true are and aren't. So leave her be.
so now you and your friend had the same lunch, so you start eating lunch with her and her new friends. (your kind of on the shy side so you don't make new friends right away) everyday you each lunch with them and then you kind of see your friend change for the worse. then in early june, she texted you saying you can't eat lunch her and her new friends she made that year. she didn't say why.
when you e-mailed her she didn't answer, she never returns anything. she even didn't say why when you have a friend to help out.
what would you do to this situation?
if you seek revenge, how would you get revenge?Can i have your opinion?I wouldn't seek revenge. She is just being caught up, I would forget about her because if she did that to you she is NOT a real friend. And if she did that you shouldn't even worry about her, no matter how hard it will be, people will do some mean stuff, but your true frirends will stay with you till the end.Can i have your opinion?Seek revenge? Don't be immature.
You've let us to assume a lot with the words %26quot;and then you kind of see your friend change for the worse.%26quot;
Once you saw your friend changing, why didn't you ask what the problem is? Why did you let it get this bad?
I would talk to her in person and try to understand what happened because none of what you said makes sense.Can i have your opinion?make new friends
u will feel much better with some one u feel comfortable around
i did and now i see where id be sitting if i were still wid my ex bff
im glad im at my own lunch table wherei feel like i can be methe same thing kinda happened to me to my freshman year only my friend didn't turn for the worse so to say. she became a cheerleader. she didn't really talk to me after that. we usually didn't fight so i didn't understand what was going on with her. what i did was tried to talk to her and if she walked away i let her. i understand that it is hard losing a friend when you have been friends for a long time but they aren't really good friends if they change on you after your lunch schedule changed. i know this wasn't exactly what you wanted to hear but i hope it helps. you can make new friends too just like she did.I'd just try to find her in the hallway or something to ask in person. Then she'd have to respond. But I wouldn't seek revenge. Revenge could be used better than on something like that.This is classic high school.
Everyone changes when they get to high school. Some for the better, and some for the worse... your friend being a prime example.
Don't be hostile, then she has a reason to be your enemy. Just send her a text saying that it's okay, and if she ever needs you, you'll be there for her. Strengthen your relationships with your other friends and show her you can be happy with or without her.wow what a bit*ch! honestly i would try to make alot more friends than her and try to enjoy highschool without her as*! she then will realize that you never needed her( cause you dont) and then that will make her feel like crap since she saw how easily you were doing without her. what come around goes around trust me her time will come(=sometimes u just gotta let her go. if shes changin 4 the worst dont change as well. stay true 2 urselfrevenge? dnt get to mad about it
if she was rly ur friend from the beginning
she wouldnt have turned on you....:/ I'm sorry hun, but I understand completely what you're going through.
The same thing happened to me in 8th grade.
I was best friends with this girl since Kindergarten, we even lived in the same neighborhood and everything. We never fought really, and we always talked about everything.
Then, one day in 8th grade, I was out of school sick for a couple of days. When I came back, I was like %26quot;Hey ____! I haven't seen you in a really-%26quot; but she just ignored me and just walked away. I was really confused, it was so sudden with nothing leading up to it, and to this day (I'm going into 12th grade now) I still don't even know whatever happened. I tried talking to her, but she would just act like I wasn't there. She talked to me once after, but only after her new %26quot;best friend%26quot; started talking with me first and all she said was %26quot;bye%26quot; as they left. That showed me that all she was, was a follower to begin with.
Eventually, I realized that I was better off without her as a friend. In high school she became a cheerleader and joined up with the %26quot;I'm better than everyone%26quot; clique, which was so different from the type of person I was. She turned into a real brat. I mean, of course, sometimes I still miss the old her. You just don't forget someone who was your best friend for that many years, but I realize that I don't want to be the type of person she is today and I don't to hang out with the type of people she does.. anyway, back to answering your question. Sorry, I just sort of came a a self-realization there.
I'd suggest trying to maybe talk with her face to face. If she won't listen or agree to discuss what the problem is, it's best just to let her go. You're right, she's changing, and that happens to quickly in highschool that it's hard to see it coming. It probably hurts a little bit, but in the long run you'll be better off without her, and you deserve a better friend than that. Don't seek revenge, just let it go. Show her that it's her loss.Don't seek revenge.
I say just forget her. If she doesn't want to be your friend, go through high school without her. Someone like that you don't need to be around. For starters, she wasn't a true friend. Like My parents tell me, in high school you find out who your true are and aren't. So leave her be.
How to loose weight?
As all of you know the new year is about to begin and new things are about to happen this year. I'm in the 8th grade, this 14-year-old is about 110lbs. I want to ask if there is a way to loose weight in 2 weeks (for the new year), around your belly and your thies (not sure it's spelled) without your parents finding out and your change in diet. PLEASE HELP!!! IM KIND OF DESPERATE AND I WANT TO COME BACK TO SCHOOL WITH A NEW BODY!!!How to loose weight?i would actually like the answer to that too
please let me know when youve found out
thank youHow to loose weight?do the grapefruit diet!!!!!
It works look it up on the internet.How to loose weight?i run 30 min. every other day and eating healthy for a month now and it has worked alot
just don't do anything not health like not eating,diet
pillsi dont know if this works but i once saw a tv show and that guy lost 70kgs in only 3 years!!! gosh he had to eat peach for three years non-stop for every mealWell it starts with a change in your diet and some excerise. I just started a new diet also and I'm going to a gym. I can tell a difference already and I've only been working out for three weeks. Keep in mind you can do this and have faith in yourself. I cut out fast foods and I'm drinking more water also. I hate plain water so I get the ones with flavor. Mostly lemon. What's up with your parents not knowing. They should know so they can support you as well. It's always a good thing when it comes to taking better care of your body.
Crunches are good. I would start with 10 reps three times each. It takes time and within two weeks you can see a change with lots of work. Leg squats, do some walking, leg lunges. There is so many. Look up online to find a quick diet. You must change your eating habits if there not good.
Best wishes and don't give up.
please let me know when youve found out
thank youHow to loose weight?do the grapefruit diet!!!!!
It works look it up on the internet.How to loose weight?i run 30 min. every other day and eating healthy for a month now and it has worked alot
just don't do anything not health like not eating,diet
pillsi dont know if this works but i once saw a tv show and that guy lost 70kgs in only 3 years!!! gosh he had to eat peach for three years non-stop for every mealWell it starts with a change in your diet and some excerise. I just started a new diet also and I'm going to a gym. I can tell a difference already and I've only been working out for three weeks. Keep in mind you can do this and have faith in yourself. I cut out fast foods and I'm drinking more water also. I hate plain water so I get the ones with flavor. Mostly lemon. What's up with your parents not knowing. They should know so they can support you as well. It's always a good thing when it comes to taking better care of your body.
Crunches are good. I would start with 10 reps three times each. It takes time and within two weeks you can see a change with lots of work. Leg squats, do some walking, leg lunges. There is so many. Look up online to find a quick diet. You must change your eating habits if there not good.
Best wishes and don't give up.
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